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female
age
36-40,
*ophisawesome
writes:I'm extremely confused about my relationship. I have been with him for over 3 years now. I feel like he takes me for granted every six months or so. We have a row and then things better for a while but then the cycle continues. My boyfriend is a good guy, but I think he has quite a few complexes. I hate to be vain but I am a a lot more attractive than him, and he says things to me like 'I dont want you to get a big head' I'm just so sick of being last in his life. Everything comes before I do, quite literally everything. He says things like 'Nothing is more important that you' but they're just words. 9 times out of 10 he doesn't answer the phone and only rings back when it's convienet for him, he ignores texts but if I do that to him he practically puts up missing persons signs. I love him so so much, I'm so terrfied he doesn't love me like I love him. oh someone help me please. Thank you
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 July 2008):
Well it's up to you hun!
He's not going to change. You have learned that he keeps sliding back to how he was.
You can either stay with him and put up with it, or you can leave and find someone better.
It depends on how much you love him. Could you see yourself being happy with this for the rest of your life? Is he really worth it? Or will you eventually snap and put rat poison in his cornflakes?
If you want better then leave this guy and go and find it.
Good Luck!! xx
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