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*bc93
writes: Hi, ever since i went through a rough breakup from a relationship earlier this year, ive found things havent really gotten much better for me. I seem to have lost touch with the people i really do love.It seems like im angry all of the time now, ive tried speaking to my family about how i feel but they dont seem to help. I had a major fallout with my father and it ended in fists flying from both of us. I dont know how to approach him anymore, he seems to different, can anyone help me, i feel like everyone i love is turning against me. Is it my anger thats the problem ? im confused, help please Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, abc93 +, writes (20 June 2009):
abc93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFankyu for takeing the time to help me out. really appreciated, its releaving for me to know theres people out there that understand. and all the advice has made me fink different about what i need to do,( espeshally reading thoroughly through past experiences) - instead of takeing it day by day i should try and get help and talk to people about it. fanks once again for your time and help, appreciated beyond belief x
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (20 June 2009):
Darling, I know how you feel. When I broke up with my boyfriend, I felt as if the whole world was against me.
I felt like I was taking everything and everybody on. It was truly me against the world.
I had fall outs with my friends, and my family. I constantly get mad at my best friend because I feel as if she isn't there for me, even though I know she really tries to be.
I feel as though nothing can satisfy me.
I have come to terms with the fact, that when my boyfriend and I we're dating, I put the whole world on hold for him. I didn't care about anything else, and now that we broke up - I am paying attention to everything now.
I was always having fall outs with my friends and family, but never really cared until now.
Maybe this is the same way for you? Think about everything that has happened that has led up until now.
Read throroughly in every situation, and come to terms and try to patch up things.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Speak to your mother? Try to get some counseling and speak to someone else about what's going on? Also, a close friend might be able to help you?
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