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I feel like a stalker and dislike it. What do I do?

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Question - (18 November 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *anatoKobato writes:

Hello everyone.

It started one day when I noticed this guy in my gym class. He was quite handsome... and hot. I scolded myself for not noticing him before, and I began to wonder what he would be like to talk to. I remembered him from the very first week of gym class, that my partner and I were supposed to count for his running... and that was the only time I ever spoke to him. I learned his name too.

I began to always begin watching him, always making sure I got next to him in the hallway so I could take better looks at him or make myself more noticed around him. Constantly now it's like I want to know where his classes are, and what car he is driving. It's kind of like stalking, and I hate it. I always try to get in the same activity he is doing in gym class, and have recently started to become happier.

I am happy whenever I see him, and I look at him and admire his hotness. This has been happening for two weeks, and I feel like a stalker and dislike it. However I seem to be all head over heels although I barely know him... I just see him around. He knows I look at him...

I'm super shy. I never can approach him to say hey. There's got to be some way I can just... finally speak to him. I wish so badly that one day by occurrence I just do it, or he says something to me.

He's a straightforward kid just trying to live life, doesn't hang out with his friends much and never bothers over trivial matters. He's really, really brilliant too (he's got AP Chem, Acc. Alg. 2...etc.)

If I could wish one thing all day it would be that we just spoke! I even tried looking up his address and finding out where he lives...

I'm a sophomore, age 15, pretty average person except I'm always working only by myself, which is pretty much how I prefer it to be. Don't hang out with anyone often. I'm shy around dating...

He - a junior. Hardworking, diligent, always participating and pretty much follows all the rules.

However one thing I am glad of... I don't get embarrassed at all talking to someone I like! What can I do about this? How can I get to know him better? :)

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