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I feel like a second fiddle. He isnt nice to me when his female friends are around.

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Question - (10 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this boy at my scool, and I really like him; he really likes me too, but for some reason when his bestfriend's girlfriend and one of his close female friends are around, he acts like I'm not there. And then after a couple of hours he actually acts like I'm there, and flirts with me, etc.

But I just don't understand why he's treating me like I'm a second fiddle. Do you guys have any answers?

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A female reader, misunderstoodgirl United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

misunderstoodgirl agony aunt

Does this guy notice you after a couple of hours whie the girls are still there or when there gone. i no this may seem mean to say but i think he is being a jerk no guy has the right to make you feel second best if he really liked you he wouldnt mess you around he would be proud to show you off but he sounds like he likes attention from a lot of girls and this meens he pushes aside the ones that are worth it (aka you) if i were you id ask him y he does this and if he really doesnt give you a gd or clear reason i would find someone that will actually take notice of you even with other girls around. ive been through this situation and i had to face it that he wudnt give me attention and had to move on it upset me but i felt better when i found someone who really cared.

Xx hope i helped xX

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