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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i feel left out of the group. all the girls at my school are curvy with big butts and chests and theyre proud of it. me on the other hand im skinny with a small butt and chest everyone thinks im really pretty and everything but yet i dont believe them and i know your personality should matter more but i dont know and i find myself feeling jealous of my best friend she wears a 32 C and wears a pushup bra ontop of that crazy right and im several sizes smaller...thats really all that was on my mind comments?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012): Hi there i am male and i can tell you for sure that tons of guys find cute boobs and petite girls very attractive , take a look at the google comments guys make about the pop singer Kylie widely considered to be o total hottie :).
Just chill out and be yourself,
i'm sure if you pay attention to guys around you you will see that you get quite a few checking you out.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes. A big chest can't trump a beautiful face and most guys I know would prefer a beautiful face to big boobs. If you feel it's necessary, you can always buy a padded bra. They even make padded underwear for butt and/or hips if that will help your confidence.
But really confidence is the sexiest trait, your friends are likely confident in themselves and that is what attracts men. Not boobs. When you are insecure it shows in the way you carry yourself. Likewise when you are confident. Tell me, when you think of an attractive women, do you think of someone slouching a little, looking nervously around, scowling, crossing her arms, or do you think of someone carrying herself like she's comfortable in her own skin? Try rolling back your shoulders, trying to imagine a string pulling up the top of your head, and repeat some kind of confidence boosting mantra in your head while you walk. Tell yourself you are attractive, confident, and sexy.
My oldest friend is very average looking. She has a boyish figure, small chest, no defined waist, flat butt, and a very average-looking face. She has a friend who looks like an underwear model and they go out together. My average looking friend carries herself with this ease and confidence that she BELONGS where she is and exudes this sense of, "come talk to me because I'm awesome and you're going to enjoy being around me." Her modelesque friend slouches and is quiet. My average friend is the biggest man-magnet I know, while the modelesque friend rarely gets male-attention.
You need to work on your confidence, not your boobs.
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