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writes:dear cupid i have been talking to a guy abroad for about 2 and half years now. he has a girlfriend and i only knew about it recently. however he said he really likes me and wants to continue talking to me as a friend. we do talk about sex and talk really closely. he's like my best friend because both of us know we cant get together. recently he got very busy with work and i cant talk to him as often as before. suddenly i feel like he will go away from me soon. i told him about this but he assured me he wont go away from me. however he still told me about his girlfrend and that im just his friend. im ok with that because i do have someone here who likes me as well and me and the guy are quite close but just not in a relationship. im really upset over this guy abroad. i feel like he;s going away from me. i really like him. we just have a no commitment kind of relationship. like a realy close frend abroad.i dont want to miss him but i suddenly feel like time flies so fast and soon maybe i might me married and i will lose contact with him. how do i overcome this feelings. its just suddenly i feel im losing him but to him he wont leave me at all. please help me get over this feelings im so upset and really anxious these two days. i cant sleep well.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 September 2013):
 I think that if you are this concerned and upset about losing a friendship that is LDR with a guy that you are not being truthful with yourself about how you really feel.
you have only ever talked to him you have never met him...
for all you know he's not who he says he is...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2013): hi he is very close to me. i share with him about everything. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2013): He's not your best friend. He's a guy you are infatuated with. Best friends are best friends not just because they can't get together. Stop talking about sex with him, it's inappropriate whne he is in a relationship , it's your responsibility as well as his to keep it clean.
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