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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So i do like this guy i had met at a friends birthday about 6 months back. We got talking through introduction by one of my close friends. He's from a different city and we both work so i'm busy at times when he's not and vice versa. However we still tried making time for each other, we'd text a lot and call each other when we were both free. I really like this guy. I told him how i felt very recently and waited for a response from him but i never really got an official one. He'd throw a lot of hints (i think) by trying to set up future dates together(none of them worked cause something or the other came up), calling up more, saying he missed me at random times of the day!! Until the day before everything was fine. But since yesterday, I've been getting a feeling from him that i bother him or that he doesn't really wanna talk to me. He started taking hours to reply and i'd get a 1 worded replies. At first i thought, 'he's probably busy' but then i noticed he kept coming online on whatsapp very frequently and would often just ignore my text. Didn't bother me yet...We didn't speak at all last night. I thought whatever it was it would be fine in the morning. So i sent him a good morning text but till now(evening) he hasn't even responded. And yet again he has been online on whatsapp every 15 mins and less. I feel ignored. I don't want to seem too pushy or stalker-ish by calling or asking him whats wrong. I feel like i've done my part of telling him i like him and if he feels the same he should respond! But then again I so want to talk to him!! I'm torn between what to do. Even though i tell my friend i won't respond if he texts or calls, i'm sure i'd just jump to my phone when that happens . I'm not a type of girl who really talks to guys a lot let alone tell them about my feelings. This is the first time I've taken the initiative but now i just feel like i'm hanging in mid-air. Should i hang on or let go?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 He knows your feelings and he's being a jerk telling you his loud and clear.
He's not interested like you are...
let it go.
if he gets back to you great but don't sit around and wait for it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 June 2012):
Stop texting him. If he doesn't text YOU, he has backed off and isn't interested.
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