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writes:Im a 20year old woman and my girlfriend is 35. She os my first partner and weve been together for just over a year, everything was perfect at the beggining but now its all falling to peices. In the past we tallked about marriage and starting a family in the future, she could never leave me alone and wanted to be with me 24/7. But now that i have my own flat she seems to be distant. She isnt as loving and sometimes i have to ask her if she still loves me as she never says it. Im really tyring to keep her happy and i feel im putting everything into this relationship but shes not even trying. Ive tried talking to her but she just thinks im calling her and gets angry. Then she starts saying she doesnt want me, but the next day she does. Its getting me so down, i feel i have no self esteem because of the things shes said to me. I love her so much and i really dont want to lose her. When we are together its amazing. Shes said shes sorry and wants to sort things out but it keeps happening again and again. I feel like im going to have a breakdown.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, i have researched the parent-child-relationship and it has give me some things to think about and helped me alot. My girlfriend is coming over tonight so we can talk so hopefully things will go well. Thanks again xx
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