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writes:my mate leaves real early every morning and stays gone for 10 to 12 hours a day he is retired when he comes home he goes to sleep and he phone is ringing for awhile but he wont answer it he shower shaves and smell good but dont pay me any attention hardly speaks to me he also calls me while he is out to see what am doing but when i call him back most of the time he wont answer is cell phone i feel he is cheating am feel something is going on but i need to be sure Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): i feel that he's definitely cheating...his actions that you've explained in you post are classic signs of a cheating mate...
to answer "why won't he just come out and tell you?" possibly he doesn't want to hurt you, maybe he's not sure he wants to permenantly throw away his marriage for the woman he's cheating with, maybe he's enjoying the best of both worlds. only he knows but it's obvious he's doing something...if you'd said 2-4hrs of him being gone i may have gave him the benefit of the doubt but 10-12hrs is ridiculous and this is your husband?
yeah i'd suggest sitting having a nice talk with him CALMLY...don't get upset because it'll make things worse...we as women are blessed with intuition "gut feeling" so i believe you know your husband is cheating, you just want proof, which you may never get...
but to protect yourself...start working on a plan if he wants to end it you'll already be prepared...don't let him determine your destiny...you determine your destiny...yeah it may hurt but better now than later...you still have time to find someone who wants to love you and spend time with you unlike this man your with...
best hopes and God bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do you mean he wants me to know he is cheating why just not come out and said it why would someone want to hurt you if they dont want to be with you anymore just leave me and go on he said he i dont have to worry about him cheating he is doing business which sometines i dont believe help me out please
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reader, Ticka  +, writes (30 April 2009):
Think about it, he doesnt pay u much mind,he no longer works but leave for 12 hours to an undisclosed location and he doesn't answer when u call.
It is obvious that he is cheating and wants you to know that he is. I think you should sit and ask him what is it that he wants and moreover decide for yourself what you want
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