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writes:I'm not a good english speker.but i tray.... my probllem is watching Porno movies. at that time I'm not happy b/c i used masterbeshen.... after all the thing happen i hate my self. allwayes I ask my mind why im doing this but i didn't get the answer...... pls I need ur help ur freand
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reader, blahblahblahh  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 you shouldn't feel guilty about masterbation, not at all. And if you aren't in a relationship and you are watching porn there's nothing wrong with that, you should only feel guilty if you are hurting someone else by doing it.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 what's to feel guilty about? porn and masturmation go hand in hand(pardon the pun) maybe it's like ebony said a cultural gap? Welcom to life in America. We have sex with ourselves a lot since it is so darn complicated to have sex otherwise
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): ? I'm a sixth grader if you truly feel guilty then ocuppy yourself with something fun and worth your time like studying english ? I'm a sixth grader
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (4 July 2010):
 I'm guessing maybe masturbation is frowned upon in your culture? Well here it is perfectly normal. It's a good way to find out what you like so that when you're in a relationship, you know what to ask your partner for. But when you're in a relationship, don't prioritise masterbation and watching porn over sex with your partner. We all need to feel loved and desired.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 In some cultures masturbation is seen as wrong. So young guys feel guilty afterward. For young single guys, porn can help masturbation along; if both masturbation and porn are seen as wrong in your culture, then you feel even more guilty. It's very common -- lots of guys feel that way.
Masturbation is a very private thing. And when you're in your teen years, when your body is churning out hormones that keep you aroused seemingly all the time, masturbation is a useful way to relieve the tension. If porn helps, and if you can keep it private, then there's no problem. The older you get, the less guilty you'll feel.
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