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writes:Please help me cos i dont know what to do.Iv been seeing this man for nearly 3 yrs but i felt i needed to end it because of the lack of affection he gives to me.He wasnt very good in bed(he lacked foreplay) even though i told him what i wanted! And he was only really loving if we were going to have sex soon.He said that he got uncomfortable,showing his feelings,and that he had a funny upbringing.I did put up with it for so long but i didnt feel he was giving me enough emotional fullfillment.I wanted more and he couldnt give it.Now he keeps txting me and ringing my phone every single day begging me to give him another chance but i have given him plenty of chances,so why do i feel guilty? I still care for him and i would like him to change but i dont think he will.Am i been harsh?
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 It seems you have already decided that he cant give you what you need, despite giving him many chances and telling him what you need in the relationship, he has not delivered.He is not about to suddenly be able to express his feelings and give you what you want now either, some people are just made that way, so he is obviously not for you. No need for you to feel guilty at all about not taking him back, you have the right to decline, and find someone who can fulfill all your needs, as you deserve.Take Care, drop the guilt and keep positive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2005): i dont think u should feel guilty at all cos u r not the one with the problem here. i dont he is going to change cos u said u did tell him and he did nothing bout it and u have given him so much chances.my dear if u want my advice dont go back. u will only end up leaving him again and wasting ur time. look for a guy who will give u all the love and attention u need .hope i have been able to help, wishing u the best.
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