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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi. i'm a sixteen year old girl. i have a girl friend who is fourteen. we have been friends for a couple years after we both moved to the same neighborhood. we always knew our friendship was different. we enjoyed being friends even though our other friends thought we were either too young or too old for eacho thers group of friends. we tell each other everything and don't keep secrets. a few months ago, we started fooling around. pretty soon we were regularly doing sexual things together. we both have had boyfriends and girls that we have been just friends with. neither of us have had any kind of sex with anyone else. i don't know if this means we are bi, but i started feeling guilty after being together. it is fine when we are together and we both like it. sometimes she starts it, sometimes me. i guess i'm worried that she might be too young. if i'm bi, i'm ok with that, but i don't know if i'm doing the right thing with her. i tried staying away to see what would happen. she said she was getting sick to her stomach because i was avoiding her. the very next time we met up it became sexual again. should i feel guilty? should i accept it and get over it? Reply to this Question
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reader, michele21 +, writes (7 November 2008):
 well im 22yrs old and im a lesbian it started when i was about 16yrs old and i was a little nervous but if you like the experiance and you like how she feels than you are bi if you like being with guys still too....i don't think you should feel guilty your not doing anything wrong if it feels right.....you have to be careful though females get really attached easily to another female you have to just really watch how you act you have to communicate say how you feel and how you want it to be up front so there is no misunderstood feelings ok don't avoid her she is young and so are you but you will learn with time its gonna take you awhile to figure out what you really want....
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