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female
age
30-35,
*roken tear
writes:hi theremy problem isi love a guy and he loves me too ,before he tells that he loves me , he was crazy about me ,i dont want to talk alot but he was completly crazy about me with all the word means like from 4 months ago he became so cold , he is not treating me care about me and even respect me like beforeone day i got so angry that i exploded in his face so it was like a crazy volcano and say a realy effective thing and said that he loves me more than the human can imagine but when he try to tell me something sweet try to get closer to me the idea of that he wont see me again -cuz we are in a longdistance relationship- takes him away since then we got crazy in lovn but after a short while he return as he wasAnd last thing he did that he didnt ask about me didnt call didnt text or even send something on facebook as he was usually doing , he didnt talk to me since the last thuresday ,And i was seeing him chatting with others playing games and having fun like im not here And when i sent him a massag asking him with a high respect about the reason although i was angry he ignored it , he wasnt busy he was playing silly games on fb, and he knew from my friend that im so sick but he didnt askim always loving , caring respecting him and praising him in front of his and my friendsi even write poems for him and compose songsWhy is he doing that for me?what should i do now?p.s: last month i talked to him and i decided to break up he insisted to prevent me i was so tired and told him that we have to be only friends he refused the idea and got angry and said that he adores me why should we be friends?.Thats so puzzling , i cant even think of what i should do.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (17 October 2011):
Hi there. LDR's are very challenging to keep going for any length of time.
The problem and the only real problem, is that you just don't see each other. So it's very lonely, no matter how many times a day or for how long you talk over the internet chat sites. It's still not the same as actually seeing each other in person.
Perhaps this is what he is thinking about. He might be considering what real hope your relationship with him has, of surviving the longhaul.
Unless you have any real possibility of seeing each other at least every 2-4 weeks, or even more frequently, you are going to be struggling to make it work the way you would like it to.
This is something you are both going to have to consider very carefully, if you wish to continue with it.
He probably sees his friends with girlfriends and seeing them once of twice a week and being happy and having fun.
And you also probably see your friends going out with their boyfriends and having fun and being happy, seeing them once or twice a week.
Then you think about what you are missing out on. He's missing out on exactly the same thing.
LDR's are very lonely.
And nothing really makes up for seeing each other on a regular basis every week.
All the long internet chats, don't come even come close to it.
You probably have some serious thinking to do now, as to whether you want to continue with it or not.
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