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writes:Hey guys, i'm in a bit of a pickle.I've been dating this girl for nearly 8 months now, and she has been starting to not care. I ask her questions, simple, mediocre questions and she replies with "meh" or "i don't fucking care" and frankly has just become rude.I don't feel i know who she is anymore and I am constatly doubting 'us'. She's almost constantly changing her opinion on our relationship sometimes from begging me to marry her to hating my guts ant telling me we should be "friends with benefits."I have no clue what do do!? I feel as if she's taking me for granted and I love this woman. I don't know why but she's changed, I've tried talking to her about it and simply got "meh", I don't know what's going on with her... I'm so confused at what to do. I love her dearly, but don't want this shit to continue any longer.I need your Help guys!! Reply to this Question
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reader, rivi  +, writes (24 July 2010):
Give her up before she dumps you.
Sounds a nightmare.
There's plenty more fish in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): If she's being rude to you and hurting your feelings in regular conversation, and it's a daily occurrence, there's really no need to punish yourself by not saying anything to her. No one deserves a partner who is mean and rude.
When she says things like that, tell her it hurts your feelings that she's not even a little interested in what you're saying. It sounds like it's a good time to have a conversation like this.
Let us know how it works out for you!
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 well talking to her won't work because it seems like she has issues communicating.
Do you think maybe she could be bipolar? Having extreme mood swings like that and all? My dad and best friend are bipolar, so I know how it goes
however, maybe you should try not being so nice if she gets snappy at you. when she says "I don't fucking care" then tell her that was rude and that you won't put up with her being like that anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Hormonal girlfriend it sounds like..
I agree that it kind of looks like she's taking you for granted slightly and treating you quite badly, but I don't think it's anything personal and aimed at you to upset you. It's difficult when you love someone because it's not easy to just let them go if they're treating you like shit, but I'd suggest giving her some distance or breaking it off with her for a while.
If she's worth it, she'll come back to you. If she doesn't, she's not worth a moment of your time and worry.
Good luck! xx
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 She's at her age when she's wondering what men are good for, whether relationships are worth it. She only lived her meer 16 years of life and she is impatient to know all the answers. Tell her you would give her time to sort things out and only call you when she has something good to say, and no more swearing please.
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