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30-35,
*onfused Lover
writes:I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong? you have to take into account that i had a relationship with him for 4 months and then we had sex because we were in love and i still love him but i aint seen him for two years because the family dont approve. how can i stop thinking about him or is that impossible considering that we lost our virginity to each other and i became pregnant but had to have a termination because again the family were against us been together.
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reader, ssejotin  +, writes (9 October 2008):
i think it messed up that your family tore u to apart as far as the last answer that was sent to you, chances are your child would have been fine www.cousincouples.com has alot of information on cousin couples it only a taboo in some place and is the only reason its not excepted... admitting your in love with your cousin is like admitting your gay some frown on it and some dont care.. you cant help who u love and if you can i would try to talk to you cousin and see what his feelings are at the moment he may still want to be with you.
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe your realationship wasn't really appropriate, but we can't choose who we love. I don't agree with your parents who tore you appart. It's really sad. But you couldn't take a risk and have baby with him, because baby can sick because of your DNK. I think you already know that stuff. I'd take a risk and suggest you to call him. You don't need to have a babies to enjoy your love. If you two would have sex again, PLEASE use condoms!
I know you want him badly, but if there is really true love you should prepare yourself that other people probably wouldn't approve your relationship, especially your family. And you should figured out how he feels now. There's a lot of things you can do. But first ask yourself: is he worth of that? Do I really love him or it's just a lust? Do I love him just because he was my first? Is there any other guy which i like? Try to figured it out first before you do something.
Good luck.
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