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writes: well, ive known this girl 4 quite a few years ( about 12 ) and over the past few months ive really started to fancy her, but she just says she wants to be freinds, any ideas what i could do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Love_Law +, writes (28 May 2006):
Hey Melon you submitted that question on my b-day:P
anyways listen..like Ainley said you just gotta accept her feelings you know...dont push it or anything...im in a similar situation but ive known her since last year..anyways think about letting her know that you are willing to be paitient and not force anything.. You have to plan your position so she doesn't feel awkward talking to you or when she sees you..nothing hurts more then girl of your dreams feeling awkward that you like her.. If you think shes the one then you won't get over her to fast..give her time and as long as it takes be supportive and friendly..you know she doesnt see you that way so dont always direct what you say in the subject of you liking her because it will be awkward. instead say it in a friendly way..show her you will be there for her as a friend and if she ever wanted more you would still be there....if your a good guy then eventually she will notice you that way... Dont end the friendship just because she said id rather be friends...this will make you look like you have no commitment and seek your own interests more then hers..remember if you seek her interests instead of yours you will make her feel comfortable around you..if you seek your own first she will feel very awkward...
One of these days break it down to her that you will be supportive and friendly and not force anything
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reader, shania  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 There is nothing that you can do im afraid....this girl either fancies you or she does'nt.Its got to be natural...you cant force someone to like you more then just being friends.I suggest you should look elsewhere but keep her friendship though...because that is priceless.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (14 May 2006):
 Im sorry to say this but there really isnt much you can do except to except her feelings and go out and find someone else. If you value your friendship you'll also give her time as ive had same experience and it made things weird, let her know your ok with it and no bad feelings because your friendship will be no more. sorry
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