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I faint during sex! What can we do?

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Question - (26 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2009)
A female France age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi,

I really need help have ever this happened to you before

every time I have sex I feel hot I sweat a lot and my heart beats so fast and I end faint. what can I do I saw a doctor he has no idea why this happened he said that I'm fine I know it not fear, I don't know whats wrong.

it always happened my boyfriend worries about me so we stop now. what can I do??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

why are you talking like that? it sounds like your a cave woman. we have sex but me pass out. we not know what to do.lol im jk. anyways its sounds like anxiety,stress. you would be suprised what those two can do to you. see another doctor. there can be no other reason. I went threw the same with one of my ex's. I can be wrong but it dosen't happen offten.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009):

Google "vasovagal syncope". This used to happen to me and this is my diagnosis. She can do a "tilt test" at the hospital to determine whether that's the problem. It's a heart condition. It is not harmful usually, but she can take medication for it. Does she sometimes faint after exercise? Or during her period etc.? I'm not saying exactly what it could be, but you might want to look into it :)

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A male reader, Beingblack United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

Beingblack agony auntAnd I have also had a girl who fainted every time she had an orgasm! Thank GOD it has happened to someone else! Her doctor told her this can happen on occasion, but not every time. The first time she fainted, I was on the verge of calling the police. I was shaking and gibbering, and probably crying. I had visions of trials, juries, imprisonment and trying to explain the circumstances to both sets of parents .....

I am sorry to say that I didn't continue the relationship for too long, as I was young, very selfish and very very scared. I didn't hang around to hear the final diagnosis.

I would like to hear from the women on this one. Has it happened to any of you good ladies? And is it harmful or dangerous to long term health in any way? I should have helped her more, but I was young and immature.

Now that I'm old and a touch smarter, I would also like to know what women who faint do about it.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntAre you eating enough and getting enough fluids? I would suggest that you take it very slowly, there's less chance of raising your heartbeat and sweating then. X

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