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writes:On another note, Im a junior righ now. I had an ex bf who I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We broke up this school year. He's a freshmen in college. I broke up with him because he did drugs and drank, plus, I was starting to fall for another guy that was my age and in fear of cheating, I broke it off. From October to January he tried everything he could to get me back, but I couldn't go back to him because I had started talking to the guy I fell for and had jumped into a relationship with him. On march, I had gone too a concert and had seen my ex there and he kept looking at me. Now, in may, I broke it off with the guy I had fallen for because I couldn't stop thinking about my ex and it wasn't fair to the guy. Now, I finally texted my ex asking for my things back, which he said he would give to me. I kept texting him asking for them back and after many texts he told me flat out to stop texting him and that he would give it back. I don't know why this disappointed me. Throughout this whole week, I found out that he was over me. At first I had asked my friend to ask my ex to give my friend my stuff so he could give it to me, but he told me my ex wanted to give it to me in person and then said, "I just wanna fuck with her" and m friend said that he wants to mess with my head. I don't know why but I feel sad about all of this. Can someone help me out and sort my mind?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 May 2012):
 If he wants to mess with you, I am not sure if you can called that moving on. He wants to appear to be moving on but for both of you it's still hard. He's still bitter about the way things ended and wants revenge. You have to take things slowly and not date until all you feel is indifference towards your ex. You feel sad because you still have feelings for him while intellectually you know that he is not good for you. Only time could make you forget. After the ipod, get rid of things that remind you of him, then gradually he will be just somebody you used to know.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (16 May 2012):
 Thats emotionally abusive of him. Hes childish for wanting to get u back gor whatever. Id involve ur parents in this. I could see this easily getting out of hand. Good luck yo.
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