I don't want us to break up..help!

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend broke up with me when she was on holiday. I told her i was fine with this and i went away myself skiing for a week. Whilst there i had an accident that meant i should be dead but i have survived with considerably minor injuries. Upon my return there was a party and she got back with me that night telling me she had decided to stop "being stupid" because i really matter to her. She told me that she was so glad i was alive and made me promise that i would never do it again. Two days later she came over for a film. After the film we had a cuddle up together and i fell in love with her so madly that night. She fell asleep in my arms and i couldn't have been happier. I told her i was never going to die and she told me that she loves me so much it hurts her to be away from me. Yesterday i went over to her house with some of our friends and then we went to enjoy the fine weather in the woods. She seemed distant the whole time and when it was time to leave i didnt bother with the last bus home, instead i ran to her house(considering i've broken my sternum it was a very risky thing to do, opened th back door from the garden and told her that i want her, but then asked her what she wanted. She explained to me how she would be going to university next year(shes a year older) and that if aything went on whilst she was away and we we're still together that it would most likely result in the ending of our friendship as well as our relationship. She told me she likes me too much for that to happen and said that she'd rather keep me as a friend rather than lose me forever. I told her how i had never been happier in my entire life with her in my arms like that. She said it was very easy to be like that with me because she loves me so much and it feels so right, but that we should end it before the summer begins because if we become any deeper entwined then we will never cope with the distance. I love her so much and it tears me apart to have to think about her going away and it hurts to think that i can't spend my life with her. She means the world to me, she really does, i dont know how i coped without her before and now i feel on the verge of taking my own life if it makes my pain and agony stop. What can i do? She completes me and ive never felt happier than when im with her. Its so hard because i care for her so deeply and she'll never know how much. The thought of her being with other guys makes me sick. I'd die for her and fight off anybody in the world who dares try to take her from me. What can i do? i need some advice very very soon before something drastic happens that i may end up regretting for the rest of my life, or that she will regret for the rest of hers.

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