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writes:Dear Cupidyour answers are really helpful. well can u help me wit tis one? in a few weeks time my bf will be going back to his home town and i know if ma bf see his ex gf again they will definatly get back together coz i know he still loves her some where inside of him. He still kept his ex gf's photo thats one thing i can prove it. i fear that maybe because he have a rough time with his last relationship thats why he wants to start one with me, jes to satisfy his feelings or what do u all think??the thing is i don't want to waste my time hanging on to him when he still loves another.
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 I gave you advice on your previous question, and I'll give the advice now.
If you can't get over this, you're going to have to leave him. Fussing about it isn't going to stop anything, and you run the risk of distancing him and driving him to do what you fear.
If you get the punishment for something in advance, most people would go ahead and do the crime to make it worthwhile
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): If your bloke is going to go back with his ex then there is nothing you can do to stop him. You just cannot stop another person going out with someone else, even if you are married to them, sorry, but i know these things from experience. If he does, then move on, why do you want to be with someone who would rather be with his ex. I wouldnt be too chuffed if my bloke had one photo of his ex anywhere near him. Have a chat with him and see if you can find out just what is going on in his head. If he does still love her then there is nothing you can do to keep him. Find out and then decide if you should move on, but dont go in for a lifetime of misery, wondering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): I think you should just back off and let your boyfriend tell you what he thinks and feels....just because he keeps her picture does not mean that he is in love with her, some guys are sentimental about their own lives, and she was a part of it, and he shared both good and bad experiences with her,
The less phased you seem to be about him going back to his home town the better, after all, he is from there, he isn't going back to run to her is he? Have some self confidence, which men find sexy and irresistable, don't be jealous of an ex, or you will find yourself alone...if he does go to her, there is nothing you can do to stop it....he is with you now, so give him the benefit of the doubt and trust until you have a reason not to.
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