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writes:Btw, I'm only writing anonymous, because I don't wantanyone from school to see this.Obviously, there is this guy i like. I've been friends with him for almost a year. I've only recently started to actually realise i have feelings for him. It looks like he's interested in me too.But I don't want to tell him, because I don't want tomake a fool of myself and to ruin our friendship!He just does little things that seem he cares. Like I bought Aaron a jumper, and whenever our friends and us are out, he is always wearing it now :)What should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answer!
i will possibly try it..
....if i have the guts too :S
never really told a guy i've liked him before!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Hey, Anonymous!Well I was once in a similar situation. I can't really give you great advice, but I would bet that if you like him, no matter how hard you try to hide it, he probably already knows, or at least thinks it a possibility. I liked a friend of mine for ages, it took me almost six months to ask her out. She turned me down, but we stayed friends. The main thing to master is the ability to actually tell him your feelings (my friends say that the more rejections you get the less it will hurt). If you can get the nerves to do that than you're more than halfway there.It is understandable that you don't want to make a fool of yourself. What you have to do is get him alone and tell him. Even if he is not interested, you will still feel better, because you'll be able to move on. If you are too shy or embarrassed, I suggest writing a note to him, sometimes they can express feelings better than talking.Either way, good luck.
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