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female
age
30-35,
*seame
writes:I don't even know her name..I'm only 15 and know that it will take some time to figure out my true sexuality-but its darn annoying!!i go to a all girls schooland i have a -what i think is a crush?I feel like a see this girl everywhere i goand every time i see her- i get distracted by what my friend's are talking about-i get super excited but try not to look her in the eye- she sees me too- and is friends with one of my friends that i haven't talked to in ages-For a time i couldn't help but keep looking at her and then i think she saw me looking at her so I'm scared she thinks I'm weird or something?!!I can't help it- so i just try not to even look at her now but i can see her see me-Or am i paranoid??I don't even see her at school anymore.. In weekends i, just by chance see her in the shopping mall!!I don't know what to do??!! Its annoying having a crush on her and i don't know how to let it go, one minute I'm thinking Ohh does she like me?? and then I'm thinking ahhh she must think I'm weird or annoying!!I don't know if she busy or anything but sometimes when i don't see her i think is she avoiding me because she thinks I'm weird???!!How do i get over her??!!
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reader, thats_not_my_name  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 hey! dw all your feelings are perfectly normal. i wish i could give you a sure fire way to get over a crush, but there reli isn't one! however, try to keep your self busy, push this girl to the back of your mind. maybe join a club or get a new hobby or just hang out with your firneds more! have fun and try to forget about this girl. when you see her, don't panic, take some deep breaths and just calmly walk past. also try and meet some more guys/girls your own age and who knows, you might find someone you like even more than this girl! good luck, hope i helped and if you ever want to talk just message me :) xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): Try meeting people out of school, guys for instance. IT's not healthy to be obsessed with someone that much especially girls as they tend to be very bitchy, and if you are looking at her too much it might spark some gossip
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is normal for you to be feelin this way atm well..more normal than you think. you have a lot of mixed up hormones and everyone goes through sometime in their life where they like someone of the same sex.
I myself am bisexual and have even fell in love with a girl that i hardly know. and its the same. i try to not look at her but i cant help it . i reli know how you feel.
im sorry to say there really isnt a way you can get over it. just let it run its course and after a while you may just stop seein her and forget she was even there. or you may go on to like other girls. but you are not weird because of it. everyones different. and its good 2 be different. and i can understand how going to an all girls school can affect the amount of attention u pay to girls.
If you ever catch her looking at you when you are not looking at her maybe you should talk 2 her.
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