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anonymous
writes:hey here's my dilemma, i see a guy i fancy every day vertually without fail almost every other hour, it's enevitable, we both live in the same village and we go to the same school but thankfully we're not in the same year. the annoying thing is, is that his mum hates me and he refuses to talk to me. i still have feelings for him even though i know it's hopeless so... i want to know how i can get over him, how i can forget he even existed, how can i look at him like anyother person and hardly realise he exists. otherwise he'll drive me crazy.i also have a friend who i think is hot (i don't fancy him but i think he looks nice) but i wont be able to see him again because of the distance and the police don't want him having anything to do with me(it wasn't his fault a girl i know framed him pretending to be the victim) so because of her i've lost a good friend so learning to forget about him would be useful as well (i feel guilty because i introduced the girl to him and i don't want to remember that guilt when i can't see the person i'm guilty about)it sounds almost cowardly but I don't want to remember a friend who makes me feel guilty every time I look at him or think of his name.if you can help them please do anon Reply to this Question
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (25 March 2010):
 So they recommended you didn't make contact or accept any contact from him not that you're not allowed to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni introduced them to eachother, the girl asked me if i would so i agreed.
the only reason i'm involved is because she said i knew where he lived (which i don't, we met on a course at sea cadets not at school or outside his house). so i was interviewed; while they were at it they asked me if he's ever done anything like that to me, at which i answered no as he's never shown any inclination. either way the police have told me not to contact him just to be safe and if he try's to contact me i should just ignore it.
i just feel guilty as it's technically my fault that he's in this mess, no matter how i look at it, it always comes down to me introducing them.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (24 March 2010):
The part I can't seem to understand is if another girl framed him and made out she was a victim therefore he got into trouble with the police what that has to do with him not being able to have anything to do with you as far as the police are concerned.
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