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female
age
36-40,
*piderghost
writes:I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months. Nothing serious, we've just been drinking, listening to records and talking. I kind of liked him but I didn't want to get into anything serious since he is over 5 years older than I am and he lives very close to me. Oh and not to mention my insane fear of commitment. Well I had been kind of avoiding hanging out with him because I got intense vibes from him the last time we were together, when he hugged me goodnight, he put his face in my neck and held onto me for a while. The other night, however, I saw him when I went out with some friends and I kept texting him because I was really drunk. Well, he came over to my house later that night. Sufficed to say we made out for a while. It was really fun but we were both pretty inebriated. The next day he texted me and said "Sorry about last night, I was really drunk." I don't know what that means? I want to hang out with him again and continue where we left off but I don't want to put myself out there if he thought it was a mistake.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 I know what you mean but at the end of the day that is what a relationship is we each have our strenghts and weaknesses and shite that comes along as part of the package deal :-)
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reader, spiderghost +, writes (15 July 2010):
spiderghost is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it's not but part of me thinks it is a bad idea since while he is much older we are still kind of at the same place in our lives. I don't know it's kind of overwhelming thinking about having to deal with someone else's issues while working through my own, you know?
But, thanks! I am just going to see how things go...I guess??
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (15 July 2010):
PS 5 years older than you at your age is no problem so don't worry about that aspect.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (15 July 2010):
I think he does like you and is feeling as unsure about it as you are. Bite the bullet and ask if he would like to be more than friends.
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