A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i am looking for some constructive advice. I live on my own in London. I came out of a really toxic relationship in 2021. The guy slept with half his office, manipulated and gaslighted me into thinking i was insane and needed help for accusing of the things he was in fact doing. The man is awful, should'nt be allowed to work with women. Anyway, I am feeling so lonely and as though i am never going to settle and have a family. I have spent 14 years in London and i am sure if i was meant to meet someone decent it would have happened by now. all my family are up north, and, although it is very rural and seems like there is nothing there to do. i have never panged so much to be up there and away from the misery here. I dont want to make a decision based off emotion but right now, the way I am living it is really affecting my mental health. I just feel lost at 37 and very alone. I had 2 miscarriages in the last 2 years which hasnt helped. I dont feel I have found my calling or my life partner. I know going back up north it would be even more quiet but I just dont know what to do for the best at all. I just was hoping to find some advice or kind words. I have really been through a lot in the las =t few years and do feel I need a change but am just worried, i dont want to make a massive move and then be stuck in the same situation but even more worse off. Reply to this Question
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