A
male
age
41-50,
*rvr
writes: I'm in love with an older woman who has a boyfriend, I need some advice on what to do, I know she loves me because we have spend magical moments together, but she doesn't know what to do, they have been together over 7 years and they live together, I don't want to let her go, what can I do?
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (16 July 2007):
I'm going to be a bit judgemental here, not something I usually do. This is not a woman to be trusted, if she is mucking around on a boyfriend that she is supposed to be in what sounds like an exclusive relationship. If it happens to me where I meet a woman and I find out after that she is in a "relationship", i'm out. If you're looking for a relationship yourself, there's too many other women out there to waste your time on one that is untrustworthy.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 July 2007):
I think you may have to let her go. The fact you have shared "magical moments" and is still with her partner shows maybe she doesn't want to give her relationship up.
You need to talk to her and tell her what you want. If she doesn't want to leave her partner do you really want to just be the bit on the side??
Good Luck!
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