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I don't want to kill the moment because I don't know what to do

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Question - (2 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *inkie390450 writes:

i need advice on how to do the inverted missionary with my boyfriend. i get shy when he asks me if i wanna switch it up and ride him for a change and i never do cus i dont know how to. i feel if i do ill look dumb and wont satisfy him.dont get me wrong im up for it but i just dont want to kill the moment by not doing a good job at it.

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A female reader, pinkie390450 United States +, writes (13 April 2011):

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pinkie390450 agony auntback again (: so i finally tried it and it wasnt bad at all :D i think what helped was the fact that the lights were off and it was dark so i felt pretty good about my self and he seemed to have enjoyed it lol im so glad i came out of my shell and tried it. thanks again (:

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A female reader, pinkie390450 United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

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pinkie390450 agony auntthank you so much for the advice! im glad to know im not the only one who felt nervous in doing this for the first time. maybe next time ill find the courage and switch it up for once.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

I completely sympathize. I had a very limited sex life before I met my current boyfriend. We usually had sex in the missionary position at first but he then decided to change things and said he wanted me to be on top. I was nervous because obviously I'd never done it before. Anyway we started face to face and I have to say I didn't feel comfortable at all. In fact I felt really really self conscious and stupid so we stopped. The next time we decided that I would be on top but facing away from him and I have to say we both loved it!! I was able to relax more and concentrate on my movements and he loved it too. You could try this?

Good luck!

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