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writes:Hello help me plz i have been in the downward spiral since summer and i now turn to random people to help me...I fell for this guy he but he didn't like me at the time, so i gave up when he fell for a friend... i started talking to this guy's friend in ireland he is cool but has had a horrid life and is now hollow, he told me that people don't wait for him and that they walk over him and use him, i related, all my life i have been walked on so i know his pain... i told him that i would wait for him coz i accidentally fell for him within the 300 hours and counting convos we have, he came to england and the day he went back we started talking, every night hence the 300+ hours... (even tho he said he was hollow and couldn't love, i smile at him when he says that he misses me and wants me and letting the word i love you slip)all is going well and i fall more and more for ireland, but then all hell! my friend 'theoretically' pulls out my heart and shoves it down the loo, and what she did to the guy i liked was unreal and cruel, it was a sad time...no longer friends and him no longer her boyfriend, we tried to help each other going out partying having fun but in doing this... made my world turn upside-down...(i have alway been a nice person, i cant lie i cant envy and i cant hurt people i know that sounds odd but it is the truth,) i tried to be the best friend i could and now he said that loves me and that he was blinded by the fact that my X friend wasn't going to be his and that even tho he had mega feelings for her, he only wanted her coz of the fact she would never be his (you want what you cant have)so now i'm in a real state being that this is my first encounter with boys liking me coz in all truth i should have been born a boy,i told the guy that i was going to ireland and he said "i don't care" i told him that there is a high possibility that something will happen between me and ireland, still i get "i don't care" ... hmmmso i have two Q's1 what the hell do i do, i love them both and want them both,and 2 do i tell ireland that i foolishly went to guys house and let him kiss me (i was thinking that it would make him think a little more if he didn't wonna kiss me anymore?!?) plz i i love them and they both i believe, love me or have some kind of feeling for me ....who am i kidding they both talk about taking me and such other things that make me wonna cut my hair off and go full lez! thank you kindly xxfrom the girl with the red hair!
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reader, gonewiththewind  +, writes (17 December 2010):
You should take time from both of them off. You would know in one night whpo ypou miss more. He'd be the one you love more. I underwent through the same thing, still can't get to stop talking to the other guy, but atleast I know who I love more .. you love both, but you love one of them more ..
I'd suggest you go for Ireland and tell the other guy to be friends with you or lose you ..
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