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*MissMoo.
writes:Hi, so I met this guy about 2 years ago, we made out once and chatted for a month then went our separate ways. 2 years down the line we meet up again and start chatting again. We find out that we have some things in common and get along very well, he ends up asking me to be his gf two weeks before I have to go away for two months. So we start a long distance relationship. It was all good and well till 2 weeks before I got home. Things went radio silent and some words were exchanged. I got back thinkin that things were ok and sorted out. But he broke up with me. By saying that he loves me but doesn't know me that well and still wants to be friends. I agree with him on both not knowing eachother and to be friends. Simply because I do not want to lose him. It's been a month now and I still think about him 24/7. I clearly still have feelings for him ( deep feelings ) I don't know what to do tho. I miss him ALOT. I don't want to force him to spend time with me. What can I do?
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reader, .MissMoo. +, writes (6 January 2016):
.MissMoo. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your advice, it's hard to let go because now I am home and see him almost every day because we live in the same small town.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2016): If he doesn't know you that well, how can he love you? If he has broken-up with you, it means the long-distance relationship has no real substance, and he'd rather not be a part of it. He probably agreed due to your persistence.
You're right, if you have to force someone to stay; they don't really want to. You already know what you should do. Let go, and move on. He's long-distance anyway. That makes it all the more easier.
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