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writes:I broke up with a boyfriend who i was with for a year and a half as you know. We both still get jealous when we each date, but im assuming that is normal. Another guy asked me out and i said yes partially to make my ex jealous. i don't have any feelings for this guy. i did at first but not any more. i want to break up with him but i feel bad for him. although he wanted us to be just casuaul (see other people too) and im not comfortable with that. any way i go to college and i really like this guy, but he says i'm too shy and quiet, when normally im loud and outgoing. we both keep asking questions about each other to our friends, he wants us to have things in common, is this showing he likes me? because i dont want to feel rejected.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Well the first thing you need to do is break up with the guy you are seeing, it sounds like you already know he isnt right for you so it is best to do it now before he develops any feelings for you. And whats with the seeing other people bit? We are not in America! That sort of thing is not ok over here in the UK, he doesnt sound like the sort of guy you want to be involved with, get rid and soon!
With this other guy you like at college, it sounds like he is interested but I dont think you can be 100% certain whether he does like you at this early stage. Have you got his number or email/facebook? Try texting him or emailing him or something, this way you can get a better idea of how interested he is in you. Texting is such a great way of figuring out what a guy wants, you will be able to tell from his tone in the mesaages how interested he is.
But I do have some concerns - you are still talking about your ex and you said you started to date this current guy only to make your ex jealous. So do you still love your ex? It sounds to me like you are not fully over him and if you arent over him properly, then it is not fair on any guy to start dating them. You need to make sure your ex is out of your life and that you have no feelings for him whatsoever before you start another relationship, otherwise there will be problems later down the line.
With this new guy, take it slow, start texting him and hopefully things will move on from there. If he is asking about you then he wants to know more - this is a good sign so make sure you act on it by getting his number and moving things forwards.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, brendan  +, writes (14 May 2009):
firstly, how long hav u and ur bf have been goin out for? And how often do u see each otha? best u tell him how u realy feel or u will probz regreting it in future
hope dis helps
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