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I don't want to do wrong by my friend, but I don't want to miss this opportunity with the girl I like either!

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Question - (28 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2011)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

I'l put the situation simply before getting into detail. Many months ago i met a girl in which we got along really well but due to there being some other guy before me, nothing happened. But recently the spark has been what seems like reignited but once again there is another guy that is trying to move his way in.

Now the entire situation-

Many months ago I met a girl, a few days after meeting we hung out a few times but whatever was destined to happen was postponed due to another guy becoming part of the picture. They dated for however long, I don't know, but I lost the contact we had. Now many months later I find myself at my mates party. It is this mate that is keen on this particular girl, which I knew about beforehand. There was no issues with his mindset until at the party the girl drags me away to dance together privately numerous times before going out the back and talking for around 45 minutes before she got picked up. Within our talk she reminisced of a day we spent before she dated that guy and wanted to do it again. She also agreed that she wants to come camping with me in a few weeks.

Now I know that it all sort of seems obvious to an extent, but the reason i'm stuck is because of that mate that had the party. I don't want to do wrong by him in the slightest but at the same time i don't want to miss my opportunity to another guy like last time.

Sorry for such a long question, but any input would be appreciated. Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011):

Get in there slugger, you snooze you lose!

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