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I don't want to date a married women, so how do I break things off?

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Article - (3 April 2012) 3 Comments - (Newest, 1 May 2012)
A male South Africa age 41-50, Great or Good writes:

Hey cupid. I meet a lady and we dated, then I there realised that the lady was married, When I ask her about it she says she is not married she is only living with her boyfriend, and she doesn't like these guy anymore.

When I ask how possible is it for a person to live with someone you don't like in the same room as husband and wife, she always says she is there cause the has a child, then she will soon move out.

My problem is, I just want to know how can i breakup with her but I don't hurt her a lot. I need your idears

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2012):

I do not see the critical part of your question.Look her I'm the eyes be nice forward and firm and tell her .I am very sorry but I do not want to be involved with a married woman.It is wrong it is sinful and at the end you will be thrown away.So do it now because married people come with baggage and that baggage is called a husband.Imagine if he finds out.Some times you do not know whom you r dealing with.Do you not listen to the news on these family issues.You are destroying a family and so is she.Please get out and The world has trillions of woman.Why do u do it?It's only for the thrill but at the end it destroys lives

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A male reader, Great or Good South Africa +, writes (8 April 2012):

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Great or Good agony auntThank anonymous I will try. It is just not that easy to do it, but very easy to talk it. Sometime you don't even program your mind to think of a person you once love, is just that she wasn't honest with me, but at time before I discover about her bf I gave her my heart, you know truly I was deep in love with her.

Anyway I will do my best to let her go.

Thanks once more

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2012):

just tell her that u have changed and that u need to go out and find what and who makes u happy cut ties with her ur not obliagated to talk to anyone u dont have to just dont string her along and dont call her when ur lonely if u really want to break it off thats what u have to do and dont look back because then whats the point of breaking up u kno be happy u dont owe anyone anythin and feeling bad doesnt help u just do it get it over with u know how to call it off

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