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writes: i recently had loads of problems with a guy that i was seeing due to him being jealous constantly and calling me - we argued everyday and he kept saying its not working but we still worked on it - now i realise that i love him and we decided to get together after 13 years but now im questioning him when he dont call me or if i dont see him for a few days when prev i hated it cos he contstantly phoned me and wanted me around now it seems he isnt that bothered but he is not the type to agree to being with me if it wasnt what he wanted but he says it is - i dont know what to do - i dont want to get hurt but i dont want to constantly nag
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you ditzy blond you are right i just needed someone elses opinion
as for who ever wrote the second answer - dont know why they bothered they obviously didnt read my quest properly - me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for 13 years he wont snap or turn me out - you are obviously not cut out to give advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): Good you have made the first step.
you're right you shouldent contantly nag nagging make you look needy and makes men feel trapped and Run think of it this way can you remember what it was like when he was contantly calling you? I bet at first you thought wow this guy really cares this is great because he bulit your Ego.
but diddnt it get old really quickly? when you keep men on there toes by having a life of your own it creates intrest and blows there mind when you have somthing you'd rather be doing then him (I mean hobbie wise) Lol!.
You obviously want the relationship to work this time round so be a bit more cool wait for him to ring you if he wants to talk he'll ring have other stuff going on for now when he does ring treat him sweet be cool and masterious,I know this is hard after a hard day but act like everythings great. We all
act in this life anyway the worlds a stage! he will get the chance to appritiate you again and he will be more attentive to you he needs his time right now let him have it like you say he chose to be with you so enhance his life and he'll enhance yours! Ditzy blonde chick
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006):
Its your problem.
Its only a matter of time before he either tunes you out or snaps.
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