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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i have been working in a supermarket over christmas a temporary job. i got the job because my mum works in the same shop full time. i have really enjoyed it and one of the first people i met was this 18 year old girl i don't believe in love at first sight but i now do after seeing her she is so beautiful and i think about her all the time. she has a great personality but we haven't spoke to each other much and everytime she talks to me i get really embarresed but try not to show it. i don't know if she has a boyfriend for definate but i am worried that she has. another temp who works with me is one of her best friends. i jst need some advice what should i do i'm 16 and she's 18 she may not want to go out with a kid who has left scholl this year i know that it wouldn't be a problem in the future but what should i do to make sure i don't blow a chance away like this
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reader, lLady Soldier +, writes (31 December 2009):
Ask her if she has a boyfriend! And if she does then you have to accept it because if you like her so much then you have to be happy for her, its the right thing to do.
But, if she doesn't have a boyfriend then start talking to her more, and BE CONFIDENT, be sure of who you are and never be ashamed of who you are, if she doesnt like you like that then keep her as a friend and move on.
But, if she does like you, then get to know her and get to be friends with her first and then take it from there, just make sure that you are the best you can be, and I can't stress it enough to be confident. Ok?
And boy, you better get back to school!
Because in the long run you are going to wish that you didnt drop out and it will ruin your life!
GO BACK TO SCHOOL!
Anymore questions then let me know.
Happy New Year!
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