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writes:Hi,So, I met a guy a while ago and i was seeing him for a about a month. So much has happened. To cut it really really short; we were seeing each other, going really well, couple weeks in we argued on a night out because i got a tad jealous because i was ridiculously drunk which is so out of character for me! It was so stupid! Anyway, i felt like a totally tool and we spoke about it and sorted it all out and then week or so later he went flakey on me and then told me he was going to get back with an ex. Then 2 weeks later of not contact ( i deleted him off facebook to help me move on, which he text me being annoyed about) i see him out and he came over and said that it's 'dead' and over between them and he kept persuing me and talking to me all night. Later he kept trying to kiss me. I pulled away and said I don't want to be messed around and I asked him what he wants from me. He said he still doesn't know... Later he caught me off guard and he kissed me. He ended up staying at mine. We didn't have sex as I've wanted to wait and i want to wait even more until i know i can trust him 100%. It was like we'd never been apart that night. We spoke a lot and he said he got scared that I was getting in too deep too early... But the thing is, I played it so cool after we argued because i wanted to back off a bit, that he said i was acting like i wasnt interested in him and wanted me to tell him what i wanted... ??Anyway, I haven't heard from him since that night last week.... I haven't contacted him. What do yo thinks going on?! I guess he is trying to work out what he wants...? I just want him to decide what he wants (hopefully me!) and not be scared to talk to me about it! x x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): He's clowning you. Shut him down
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 i think yoiu serioulsy need to reconsider your relationship with him. your describing a guy who can just up and walk away from a good relationship with no just cause. and getting jealous is not a just cause it is a normal event in any relationship. and if he is using it as an excuse for him leaving, then he is a liar as well. the fact that he pushed you to kiss him, when you clearly werent ready for it, is a very good indicator as to what he wants from you, and i have a feeling that if he does get it from you, he will move on very soon. i think you need to take a step back and look at all the facts. you dont judge a person on their words, you judge them on their works ( i know....corny lol) but its true. anyone can put some pretty words together, but his actions speak differently.
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