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writes:right like my last question the lad that i like (theres a 5 years age gap) has finally shown me an interest and he has been talking to me for a bit, he recently went to poland n i miss him.he has slept with a stripper and another girl to get over his break up with his gf of 2 years, i really like him and was wondering that if we slept together would it just be to get over his ex or because he actually likes me.they spilt up about 5 months ago and i have liked him for ages!!i want something with him and not just a one night stand - what should i do????please help!
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reader, love sucks!  +, writes (22 April 2007):
dont sleep with him your just in for heartache and u really like him already,its just gonna make it worse if u sleep with him,trust me.i recently got with a guy and then we talked 3-4 times a day and i haven't seen him since and i really liked him to.but i dont think he's over his ex which sucks for me he had 2 kids with her.just give things some time and see what happens if he really likes u he will get over her.just dont wait around on him,though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): Well there is a possibility that he likes u!Nd there's also a possibility he woz using u 2 get over his ex.
Though I think he likes u nd u should ask him out cus u know guys they take 4 eva 2 ask a girl out, so girls often have 2 make the first move!
Hop this helps!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): If you want to have "something" with a boy and you want to know if he really likes you, then withhold having sex for a long while, many times if you sleep with someone to soon, they see you as "short term" only. You can't build a relationship on just sex, and once you have sex you can't start over and build the relaitionship firt.
Also, if you are 16 or 17, don't you think you are too young to be dating and sleeping with 23 or 24 year old men? In my country, he would be arrested for statuatory rape because you are a minor, and I think it is a good law, because you are very young and vulnerable, and you are asking these kinds of questions on a agony aunt advice site, which means you are not old enough to make these decisions for yourself without asking what other people think....you have no business becoming sexually intimate with this guy in my opinion, it will only lead to your heartbreak....he sounds like an immature jerk telling you that he slept with a stripper to get over his ex girlfriend, yeah right, that is the way to erase her memory from his psyche.
He is lying to you, he is a player, and he is only interested in sexual conquests.....you have known him for ages, if he really was interested in you, he would have been dating you and not another girl, now that he is single, does not mean that here is your chance.....he would have asked you out already or shown you some interest a long time ago....be careful here, he is most likely out to use you if you allow him to do so you will be sorry.
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