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I don't want to be a lesbian.

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Question - (19 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I don't want to be a lesbian. I feel like I am attracted to girls. Boys most of the time are gross. I am a teenager and I'm scared. I am also christian....It's againstmy religion.......I want a happy non-lesbian ending with kids and a husband..........help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

You are young and may not be confident with boys..Allow yourself to grow and if it your belief not to be a lesbian then dont be one..forget all this talk about living a lie etc etc...If you desire a husband and kids that i what you will receive...Pray daily and ask God to keep you...You are still young and not ready for relationships and it is normal at a young age to think boys are gross but I bet you wont think so when you are younger...I personally believe that it is not true that people are born gay rather they choose to be..make your choice according to your faith and dont let anyone confuse you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

:O first of all there's nothing wrong with being a lesbian or being attracted to girls! Women are beautiful and charming creatures afterall ;) . You might be bisexual like me :3 I am really attracted to females but there are certain things I love about men as well. Maybe you haven't started really liking boys and you might ever not and that's okay! I started liking males later on....

but anyways Don't go by living a lie just because of your religion if your a lesbian go for it! And don't ever be afraid or ashamed of who you are!

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