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writes:ok i have been friends with this girl for some time now, we hang out rather it be with others or just us, i like her to more than i have ever felt for someone, im 24, i enjoy the time we are spending with one another, an i just dont know if i see anything to show me if she likes me or not. when we have gone out to the bar ahe always asks me if i want to make out, i never do because i dont want her to get the rong idea that ill just do that with anyone, she acts so much diffrent around me when she has been drinking, ( i dont drink but a few beers) so my question is how do i see signs that she likes me or not??? what could i do to help me see??? Reply to this Question
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Before my BF and I started dating, I got some really mixed signals from him. I ended up having to straight up ask him if I was reading into things too much, or if there was some chemistry going on.
It turns out, he didn't want me to feel pressured into anything because I was just coming out of a divorce.
My point is, sometimes you never know until you ask someone. It kind of sounds like she has a few problems communicating her feelings if she is so open after drinking, but so reserved any other time.
Just ask her, point blank. Tell her that you do like her, and are attracted to her in more than one way. The worst she could do is say no, and even that's not so bad because then you would finally have your answer. Just go for it :)
PS: I think it's admirable that you don't take advantage of her when she is drunk. Good men like you are few and far between.
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