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writes: Hi OP, your question isn't clear, and can use please also go back and add periods? Thank you! i need help i love my girlfriend and i don't want to lose her she has been different lately and told me that i act immature because i tend to cry when she gets mad i tell her i love her but she doesn't tell me she loves me back she thinks i cheated on her because i was involved with my friend's internet porn webcam thingy. i would talk to a friend that was female and she says she always catches me when i check out other girls when i don't please someone help me i love her so god damn much she was never like this before i want her to see that i love her i want her to know that i'm honest and i'm willing to do whatever i can to make our relationship work she tells me being friends is simpler but i just can't stand that thought because of my feelings for i know she needs time and space but i don't want to 'wait and see' just for her to leave me and what gives me a worse chance is that her family hates me and especially her cousin which is her best friend and would do anything to get rid of me please someone help me i don't want her to get brain washed by her family making me look like a bad guy and want her to know that she can trust me and that i love her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): wow! 16 to 17 years and your whole life ahead of you. So much more to do. A whole lot of maturing still to happen. Travel plans to make for later. Career goals to decide. Study courses to decide on. So many more plans to put in place. So many more beautiful women who will cross your path before you finally marry and have children and build a career.
And all your life you will have peaks and troughs. Lots of problems or just a few ptrnlens Big and small problems. Some will last a short time. Others will take a lot of work to solve.
But problems to solve are not the issue. The real issue is how well you resolve the problem. Without tantrums, without manipulation. And with consideration for all the parties to the problem.
If her family do not like you, find out why. Then resolve to behave in ways that demonstrate your better maturity
Right now what seems like an insurmountable problem will eventually come to seem like a very solvable issue.
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