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writes: hi cupid?i have a problem i have been seein this lady who i met in a joint in town. she'ss being very good to me but i have a problem. she's been spoiling me in many ways that i even ask why she's doing it but she is relentless. now this is bugging me koz she doing all the iniating of dates using money on me and when i want to return the favour she doesnt want. she also has a boyfriend who they are not in good terms reason simple he doesnt want to compromise. 2weeks i have slept with this chick and i feel bad koz i think she using me as a sex toy.i like her so much and i know she also likes me since she cant stay a day without kaling me. how do i win this ladies heart witout this money involoved. i simply dont want pity SEX of which i have told her. so please help
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 Hi There,
She is not using you for pity sex, she is just using you for regular sex. She buys your attention, and since you have not put a stop to it, I doubt very much you are going to make her see you as more of a man. You let her mother you too much. She is having her fun. She keeps you around and controlled through the money and gifts, gets sex from you, and even has you hooked on her, when you know she is cheating on her bf with you. You are her boytoy, and the chances are very very low that she will ever see you as anything more. Esp, if you allow her to "buy" your attentions all the time.
-Frank B Kermit
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