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*ero05
writes:so i got this guy.my guys' amazing!were not boyfriend and girlfriend---yet!but we both really like eachother.we had "the conversation".ya know. what page are we in, stuff like that.turns out, were sooooo on the same page!!it's amazing. were so alike.we decided we were going to take things slowely.and i complitely agree.so, i wanted to know if enyone had some tips of enything like that to make him like me even more.i dont wanna come out to strong but i want him to know he is on my mind.so, what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): You are so young. Why are you guys taking things slowly? This is the age where you are supposed to be passionate and irrational.
Whose idea was it to take things "slowly"? What does that mean anyways??
Look when a guy really likes you, especially at that age, there is no pace too fast or too slow that he would pass up. So if this was his suggestion I would be a bit suspicious.
And if you even have to plan ahead the pace that your relationship is going to take, that's kind of lame. You guys should just let things progress naturally. And when their is genuine interest between the two of you, there is absolutely no reason whatsoever why either of you would suggest taking things slow. Sorry but that is an excuse for something else.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 September 2007):
You need to have many more conversations with him. Praise the things he says. Act interseted and always smile when you're with him. Ask for his advice and follow it. Ask him if there is anything you can do for him. Tell him you love him and will do anything for him. Send him cute cards and notes. Tell him the things you would like to do with him.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (15 September 2007):
 well hun you can just be you and him liking you more will come natural if he feels for you but for the time beig he said take things slow so keep somethings covered not everything like youre interessed but dont go telling him hes on your mind so much you cant sleep like over doing it you may scare him off
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