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writes:I've been in a relationship about 2 years and we love each other and want get marry soon but some days ago he decides to break up. I dont understand his reason, he told me he can't make me happy because he has a big problem with his economic situation. His father was very sick and he worked in 2 jobs to get enough money for his father's surgery. After all this stress he have a problim with his health, and now he's in hospital for 15 days.The other problem is that we live in different counties and i cant give enough support to him. And before he's gone in hospital he said that he love me more then his life and when he improves his health and financial situation he will find me and if I still want us to be together we will be.I dont know how to react to this and how to show him that this situation is not a reason to break up. Please help, what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2012): "I don't understand his reason for breaking up with me... Help!"
It doesn't matter if you don't understand the reason for his breaking up with you, all you need to understand is the result: you and he are now broken up.
"I dont know how to react to this and how to show him that this situation is not a reason to break up. Please help, what can I do?"
Nothing you can do. It doesn't matter if you think your situation is not a reason to break up, HE thinks it was a reason to break up and that's why you and he are now broken up.
Unfortunately, the numbers aren't on your side. While it takes two people to agree to enter into a relationship, it only takes one to decide he/she wants to exit a relationship.
And his stated reason probably isn't the real reason(s), likely he's being a gentleman and letting you down softly and easily. Your post reveals one unadmirable and unflattering trait that would turn me off almost immediately: You simply don't know how to take "no" for an answer.
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