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30-35,
*ackh_902
writes:I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally don't read much into that stuff but 6 is a lot to put.. but she has also told me that she has liked another guy for over 5 months.. and she still has strong feelings for him. We have met up a few times and talked a lot and then had a little kiss at the end, but something just didn't feel right as much as I liked her.So last week I asked to meet up with her and talk about this situation as I was so unclear about it. When we did meet up I asked her who she liked more me or him and she said him although she does have a big thing for me too.. She carried on talking about him and obviously I didn't want to hear it. I just don't know what to do now, I still really really like her but part of me thinks I should give up and move on even though I know how hard it would be. What should I do?
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reader, Bee Rose +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Heyy,
Well to me I think, that you've told her how you feel about her. That's done and out of the way, ow it's her turn, let her choose the ball is in her court, I suggest make contact with her and tell her it's the last time until she decides both you and her need time to think about what you want.
After that tell her to contact you about her decision. If she doesn't reply you know where you stand. If she does then champange all round right??
Hope I helped x
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