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writes: ok so me and this girl have been together for a good amount of time now. i was her 1st kiss. i personaly am ready for more but i dont think she is. how do i get her to do more then just kiss? im ready for like a hj or anything actually haha. i just wanna tell her but i dont wanna sound like a freak or a perve nd make things weirdand then ruin what we have together.shes an amazing girl and i love her with all my heart. does anyone have any advice? all answers are welcome and highly appreciated. thank you =) Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (17 November 2008):
you can't force someone to do something they dont want to. if she is not ready for a sexual relationship then she is not ready. anyway you seem too young for a sexual relationship!!!!!
i wouldn't just grab her hand and place it on your groin, that will spell for disater. the best thing to do would be for you just to say to her it may be nice if you touch eachother a little abit more and then if she seems ok wit that, then guide her hand to your groin. take it slow, let her just feel you on top of your clothes. it may get her abit more interested in what's under your trousers. but don't rush her. if she is not interested, then leave it be!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 November 2008):
When you are kissing, take her hand and put it on top of your trousers so she can feel you.
If she pulls back and says to stop it then you are just going to have to stick to kissing.
If she is not ready then she is not ready. You are both very young so kissing is perhaps the furthest she'll want to go for a long time.
You'll just have to stick to doing it yourself.
Good Luck!! xx
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