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writes:im 14 and i hav a freind with benifits whos also 14 (hes my Xboyfreind). we have been seeing eachother for about 5 months and i hav already givin him oral sex. My freinds and family all say that he doesnt deserve me and that i can do better and at times i agree, but i do think that i could posably be inlove with him. I dont think hes inlove with me but i do think he has some sort of feelings for me. He wants me to have sex with him but i dont know what to do. I think i want to but im realy scard of whats ganna happen after. what should i do? should i have sex with him and take a risk or should i let him go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): If he doesnt love you, and wants sex, all he cares about is sex, not you, sorry.
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reader, nope +, writes (3 May 2008):
Okay. I've had this situation myself. Lol.I wouldn't do it, wait until you think you're ready. If he pushes you then drop him. If he keeps asking you to do it, drop him. And in many ways he probably doesnt deserve you. And If you do have sex, make sure you USE A CONDOM. My sister has recently gotten an STD and it's not something you want in your life. And if he says "I've been tested." or "I'll pull out." Sounds sick, I know. But dont listen to him. There's still those chances...hope this helps~Lovelovelove- leah.
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 Sex is much, much better if it happens between people who genuinely love each other.
That's not a "moral" comment - it's simply a fact. It's a far better experience with someone you love and who loves you. Vague "feelings" are not enough.
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 May 2008):
 I dont think you should because, if you dont think he actually likes you whats the point? He will probably tell someone if you do have sex with him and everyone will think he is a stud and you are a slut... thats the way it works, guys get praise for having sex underage, girls get called names such as slut, it doesnt seem fair, so dont have sex with him and save yourself the drama, wait untill you meet the right guy!
hope this helps
Love & Hugs
Tasha x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Trust your heart, it sounds cliche but it works. you are still very young and there i no need to rush into sex at your age, you have plenty of time to make sure you are ready.. you have to think about yourself and what you want in these situations.
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