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I don't think he's over me and I'm afraid he will ask me out again!

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Question - (5 August 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,

I'l make this short!!or atleast try;)

So about 4 years ago this guy asked me out,he said he loves me and I dint so I said no and we were friends,when I said no he cried,he stopped coming to college then about 2 years after he moved on,and he's dating a girl..he got back in touch with me via msn then he took my phone number,we began talking like how we used to,I used to share everything with him we were really close..but about 3 days ago he said something that really made me feel he's still not over me!I don't want to lose him again,I'm scared he'l ask me out again and I'l say no and he will stop talkin to me..what should I do?I'm single by the way!so may be thinks he has a chance

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (6 August 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntYou may lose him as a friend if he wants more. It is awfully hard, down near impossible sometimes, to be "just friends" with someone you love. If you do lose him, try to see it from his perspective. It would be very hard seeing you all the time and talking to you all the time realizing there is no future.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012):

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Haha..lose him as in if I say no to him I will lose him as a friend second time around..

I like this guy as a friend I turn to him and confide anything and everything,so what I am afraid of here I will lose him a friend again!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012):

I am also confused, you say you don't want to lose him, but you don't want to be with him. You need to figure out what you actually want from him. What do you actually want from him? I can't really say more without more information.

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (6 August 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntI am completely confused on what you really want. You say you don't want to lose him again, yet you say you're "afraid he is not over you and will ask you out". What is it you really want from him? I don't think we can respond unless we know what your intentions are. Are you saying you just want to be friends, or do you want more? I see he has a girlfriend yet is still in touch with you, so that is a factor.

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