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*issNoName
writes:Okay so im in a really bad situation me and my ex were such a lovely couple when we were together (he lives in a diffrent country)but we drifted apart after 2 years of being together i still love him but i met this new guy we've been seeing each other for nearly 5 months and he has already told me he loved me at first i thought i loved him to but then i came to thinking do i really ? my ex still loves me and is askin me to come back he didntt know ive met someone else i didnt want to tell him just in case i regretted it and wanted him back i know it wasnt fair on him but i did it anyway .. someone then told him that i had a boyfriend and he was really upset .. i want to finish with me boyfriend for my ex but im worried about hurting him .. people are telling me to do whats right for me but i just dont know ..if i go back with my ex i dont want to go back to seeing him a couple of months a year he says i can move in with him next year (cause of my job i have to wait) but im scared if it all goes wrong but then im thinkin that i should give this relationship another chance but my boyfriend now is so lovely but i dont really see my self being with him in the long term i really dont know what to do .. Please help
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reader, MissNoName +, writes (1 September 2009):
MissNoName is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni broke up with him because of the distance. i know its not fair on the new bf i feel really bad hes such a lovely guy and does deserve better. i know i should end it with both and sort my self out but i dont want to be alone :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): I know this may sound harsh, but I would always say that remember your EX is an EX for a reason. Its easy to look back with rose tinted glasses and remember all the things that made you a lovely couple, without remembering the things that made you no longer a couple.
As for the new guy, the whole thing doesnt sound to fair on him especially if he is in love with you and thinks you are too.
I would suggest that you take some time to work on yourself, what you want from a relationship, how you want to be and how you would like your partner to be etc. Once you are truly happy with yourself and know exactly what you are looking for this will help you make all the right decisions and be with the right person. Spending some time on you before you go into anything else with or ex or anyone else will pay dividends in the end I promise you.
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