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writes:I don't really know where I stand at the moment with this girl i quite like but am a bit unsure about. Was at a party the other week with some friends, and thier house m8 was there, she was flirty and asked our friend to let me know she liked me, so we got to talking and at the end of the night hooked up, so i stayed the night and we spent the next day together cuddleing watching movies and stuff. The following night 'friday' we all went out together, my friend anhis gf went home early and the two of us stayed out, my friends sisters were out and bumped in to me in the bar, so i was talking to them for alittlewhile, in the meantime this girls gone off talking to the DJ, who she later that night left with. Im not sure if she did this as a jealousy thing or what, anyways i left her to it, so last nite 1 week after we origonally hooked up i was round my m8s house ,she came home bout three in the morning ,at which point we were all asleep, she came in the living room where we were crashed out ,and woke me up to say hi, so we made general chit chat n stuff n i asked her what was going on sort of thing, to which she answered ,she likes me but is a bit emotionally mixed up over her ex at the mo and doesnt know what she wants sort of thing, which she did mention before and im cool with taking time, i said i would like to get to know her abit better.And that she blew it off with the dj guy telling him it was a misstake. so anyways she went upstairs and went to bed and i went back to sleep on the couch, Next day Me and my buddy went out for the day and left the two girls at the house.So we came back in the afternoon and were all hanging out together, abit later in the evening this guy turns up and shes going on a date with him? so now im thinking shes just been giving me aload of crap and just maybe wanted a 1night stand ,which if she'd just let me know that was all it was is fine, but then shes re asusring me she likes me the night before? Apparently from what i gather theres been a few guys come and gone since shes been what seems to be re-bounding from her ex, who she was with for quite some time, as a person we get on really well together and shes quite the hottie, and i am genuine about getting to know her and seeing where it goes, just dont want to get messed about, what do you guys think?
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reader, ls933r  +, writes (14 November 2008):
hey there buddy! I think if she is just coming out of a relationship she is going to wanna "play" for a bit.. I you know what I mean. If it was me I would play the games she's playing right back... Line yourself up a few hot dates and make sure she knows your not making yourself fully available to her. You're coming off as too easy! Girls are like guys in the way that we want a challenge. The more unavailable you are, the more we want you. She's not fully available and I can only imagine how bad you're wanting her. Whenshe wants to hang out don't jump at the chance.. Make I obvious your seeing other people too, bit don't make her think you're not interested in her still. Show some compassion. When your at her house eye her when she's in the room to me her know she still has you're fancy but she's gonna had to work to get all of it! I promise you if you play the same game she's playing with you to her you'll come out on top!!! Maybe even litterally (wink wink)!!!!!Xxxzxxx
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