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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we currently live together. Problem is i dont think i am in love with him any more. we have serious arguements sometimes that often end in tears (mine) but on the flip side things can be really good. Im scared if i break up with him because he has said before that he would shoot himself or burn all my things. Im not worried about all my stuff but if he hurt himself i couldnt handle it. All my family are out of town so i am on my own and unhappy please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): Well, my advice to you is "don't be scared". At the end it's still your decision whther you still love him or not, he still could'nt do anything if you break up with him. He does'nt have the rights to dictate you on who will you spend your time and love him,plus, if he really loves you like he says so, he'll respect you on whatever decisin you make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): When I split with my ex he said almost exactly the same things to me! He even threated to take an over dose! But I kept my resolve and left him - I told his mother and family what he said he'd do if I left but it was either leave him or stay stuck in the same rut that we had been in for a number of years!
I moved away, got a new job, new mobile number and started again fresh and it was the best thing I ever did! Don't leave him black mail you with all that emotional stuff!! Your never alone - there's always some one here for you!! Best of luck with it all and please feel free to PM if you like to talk more :)
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