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writes:Well I have no other clue how to say this, except for the fact that I don't like how it feels when I'm about to orgasm. I'm a guy and I can only find articles about it happening to girls but, ya know I'm a guy so they aren't exactly help full. It just feels strange and like an over stimulus. It's not a pleasant feeling in the slightest but I feel like it's not normal. Scratch that, I'll be shocked if it's normal. If anyone knows what this means, or why I feel this way, it would be great to know.
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reader, Without Me +, writes (27 February 2019):
Yes..Im a woman and a whole lot older...but I think I get what you are saying and I had to respond since you are questioning if its normal.
You said it just feels strange and like an over stimulus.It's not a pleasant feeling in the slightest but I feel like it's not normal.
Do you mean you feel over-stimulated?
Yes..sometimes overstimulation happens and its absolutely normal. Im not sure exactly why, but its not un
I think you meant to say it's not an UNPLEASANT feeling in the slightest.
No, its not unpleasant just probably frustrating if you are alone, but more frustrating if you are with someone.
Hope I helped. If I am way off..I apologize.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2019): Is it the emotional or physical feeling just as you're about to orgasm, or the way you get there?
You may be hung-up about masturbation; and guilt steps-in just at the moment of climax.
If it's a burning-sensation, you could have an urinary tract infection or a STD.
If you're talking about masturbation; maybe you've been conditioned to feel guilty about pleasuring yourself, and what's going through your mind is what makes you feel bad about the result...orgasm.
You apparently live in your head and might have a tendency to over-think or over-analyze everything you experience. If you don't have a partner; you're going to be too focused on yourself, and nothing else.
I wouldn't worry about it. Unless you start to get erectile dysfunction when having sex with a partner. I can't see it being that much of an issue; unless you're a sex-addict or sex-worker.
Minimize masturbation if you're hung-up about it.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (24 February 2019):
 It's not as uncommon as you'd think. Get checked out with your doctor and mention it to them - they may be able to find or rule out health issues and give you potential causes for it :)
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